Tuesday, July 28, 2009

I am really getting tired but I still want to be nice?

I am 7 months pregnant and I am really tired of people telling me what to do for dealing with migraines, to my c-section, and after the c-section managing the pain. Not only am I getting it from all my friend and coworker I am getting it from my husband about my parents come up for two weeks. (His mom is coming up after my leave) I don't want to hurt anyone feelings because I know they are just trying to help but sometime enough is enough.

I am really getting tired but I still want to be nice?
oh hurt them all, We'll just think your just pregnant any ways
Reply:madam


this the irony of life. lots of free advice, some well meant and some maybe not. you are right in feeling that at time u would like yell..do it :) but in a closed room. people mean well but do not understand that always u may not want to listen. any way thats life ..bear with it, and when a similar situation comes do not repeat it yourself.my blessings for the newcomer.best wishes and best of luck.
Reply:go to friends and co-workers "yehh alot of people tell me that but im going through pregnancy fine atm" %26amp; well to your husband you can be mean to him and blame it on the pregnancy " dont you think i know that!" why are you afraid to be angry anyway cos this is one of the few times in your life when you can use the excuse "im a hormonal pregnant women plzz u dont wanna mess with me!"
Reply:just have a good personality with them
Reply:You poor thing... be polite and try and stop the conversation before they get onto something else they are an expert at.


Good Luck with your new baby.... chin up.


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