Friday, July 31, 2009

Pls help me...?

just before a month i had a fight with my frnd. we used to talk each other daily in phone. But he has the habit of calling all his frnds in night time be it a boy r girl. but i have warned him a lot not to call me in night time. but he does it as a fun. once when he was calling me in night my mom attended the call so v were caught though we were only frnds my mom misunderstood our relationship. c warned me.. i some how managed the situation nd said it was by mistake he called me.. so i shouted at him..bcoz of this i didnt call him and i didnt talk with him for the past 1 month.... i feel very bad..should i lose a good frnd bcoz of this...? shal i continue to talk with him again...?he seems to be so dull bcoz of this.....

Pls help me...?
Look at it this way -


how do you call him a friend when deliberately does things which will hurt you??!!





I wouldn't...





This is your decision....





But, consider following facts..


Does he feel same with you ?


Why does he do this when it hurts you ?
Reply:HI frnd,


look it is true that u shouted at him but it also true that he was wrong and he has doen a mistake ,it is accepted to him that he should come to you and apology.


I know how ur feeling but let him feel also the same.if he is ur real frnd he will realise it soon and come back to you.





Remember my one advice ..never feel gulty if ur on the right and never take time to realise and correct Urself if ur on the wrong





good luck!!!


A Frend
Reply:First of all the mistake was on his side as he called up at night even after you warned him not to. A good friend would have apologized immediately. Did he? At the same time, we cannot judge him based on this.





Don't let your friendship break because of this one silly incident. Just get back to him and tell him that he can call you anytime except for at nights! I bet he will understand.
Reply:see its not like that u should first tell him tht dont call at night if he deny then u should stop talking to him. bcoz he must b not a good guy. if he is a good guy he would nvr call u at night . so u should think over it.....
Reply:may b u shd talk 2 him ...


... and try 2 b frnds again...


...if he still follows the same old habit...u shd stop talking 2 him...and stop being his frnd


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