Why is he doing this 2 me?

4 the past 2yrs ive been with a man who has emotionally %26amp; mentally abused me. he managed to make me believe i was always wrong %26amp; that every arguement was always my fault. if i ever managed 2 tell him it was his fault, he wud start crying %26amp; blame it on irrelivant things. he told me i was mental %26amp; stupid %26amp; even managed to make me believe it. once he convinced me that it was my fault he beat me up because i had slapped him 4 spitting in my face. he constantly feels sory 4 himself, makes up lies %26amp; puts on a baby voice to make others feel sory 4 him. finaly i hav left him but i am 5 months pregnant.


he has told me that he slept with my best friend which i cant c as she hates him %26amp; has never had the chance to. he has told me im skinny %26amp; useles %26amp; wont get anyone else. he is also stealing cheques from my post %26amp; spreading lies 2 all who i no in order to gain their sympathy %26amp; make every1 hate me. evry1 i no even his mates have sed im 2 gud 4 him %26amp; shud leave. hes ruinin me. wat shud i do??

Why is he doing this 2 me?
Sounds like you already know what you should do. Leave and a few prayers may help too. Good Luck
Reply:ruin his life make sure he never 4gets it and try doing something with ur post if u can change it so he cant actually get it and dont make him let u feel bad ur a proud independent woman so dont fall for anything he says
Reply:Aw, hun, WELL DONE for coming to terms with the fact that he is a violent man, who is worthless, and does not deserve you. DO NOT believe his lies, you will find someone else, I am pretty sure that guys would fall head over heels when they see the confident, radiant, gorgeous new you. It is GREAT that you left him!!!





Spend some time with your girlfriends, shopping, get a makeover spa day, they're endless!








As for the baby- DO NOT ABORT IT! Unless you think you would not be fit for a mother, don't abort it, that child has a chance to live, and grow up into a great person, because you will bring it up the right way!





Please do not go back to this man. I'm begging you!





Try and move out somewhere, like to your parents, or somewhere completely new. You will make new friends too! But only do this if you have the money...





A fresh start





I hope this helped. It will all work out. Good Luck!





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Reply:listen if ur strong enough to leave which it seems it is then DO IT! i wish i had enough nerve to leave. he dont deserve you it seems and pregnat keep it raise it and dont worry about him or anyone but u n baby,you will be better off if u are away from him now doesnt feel alil better he isnt callin u names or hitting u..and when u and him are really done get professional help it helps alot someone totalk with its good and healthy... good luck
Reply:You can't worry about what he's doing to you anymore. You have to worry about what you can do for the child inside of you. You must set aside his petty cry for help from others, and start thinking about a new and better life for your child. The truth comes out sooner or later. When he is lying, he'll only be caught webbed in his own lies. So let his words pass you and ignore it This is only his way of trying to get to you and getting your attention, negatively! What you need to do is ignore him...and eventually...he'll stop. Just do what is best for you and the baby right now. That is the only way to go.
Reply:Pack your bags and hit the road, you've got one baby to worry about. You don't need him one bit.
Reply:Stay far away from him. He sounds like he's got deep rooted issues that extend further than your relationship. i'm sorry you have to deal with this. Just please stay away for not only your sake but your unborn child. Maybe a restraining order...but dont let his petty immature childish BIPOLAR games get to you. Its not worth it. Best of luck.


p.s. I'd consult a lawyer asap