What to do?

so, i have a relationship with the best guy i have ever met and probably will ever met.. the only problem with the relationship is that it is a long distance one...





i wanna be with him physically so bad.. but i cant cos i have to study and he has his commitments...and so i get upset and im sad most of the time... i spend all summer with him and this year he visted me for 2 weeks.. and i will visit in march for 3 weeks... we plan on discussing what is gonna happen to the relationship cos im really frustrated with the distance...





the only 3 solutions i came up with are





a. we stay together and hope one day we will be together, and try %26amp; hopefully manage to inc the times we c each although v hard


b. we break up all though i love him very much and he loves me too


c. we break up... and see what happens when im like finished with my studies and stuff.. i know that there is a possibility in 5 years that he finds someone else, or i find someone else. or we dont feel like we do now

What to do?
I understand that completely!


But why break up a relationship when it's goting perfectly well and you're both in love? Well, it could save you future heart-ache and let's face it, it's inevitable. But if you're meeting up soon, then you might as well enjoy that when it comes around.


It depends how old you are and how far you live apart. But I would advise not to give up hope just yet. It's like saying: "Well I can't be bothered. I'll go find someone who is 'simple' cause they live in the place that I do." I'm sure neither you nor him could get over it that easily.


You will break up. It's fact. But to make it easier, you can look back on all the great memories you shared, instead of having no memories and wondering what could have happened if you had stuck around long enough.


So see how it goes. Remember to keep your studies up cause they are very important, but have fun on the side!


Good luck and have a nice time in March (:
Reply:Definately "A". I know you are miserable now... but how miserable would you be if you weren't together at all? As for "C", there is ALWAYS a possibility you will find someone else. Wait, and cross that bridge when you come to it.





Enjoy the time you do have together... even if it just every so often.
Reply:It really depends on yall if you love each other it could be worked out.
Reply:a or c