I am confused?

Out of the many guys who approached me this semester so far, there is this one who I fancy a lot. We hit if off from the start %26amp; he gave me his number. For the first few weeks, he called %26amp; texted me often. We hung out on campus a lot, %26amp; he started giving me these extra long hugs. People kept askin me when we were gonna start goin out. His friends even asked me about him when he wasn't around. He stopped answerin my text messages but that was from him losing his phone. When he got it back, he started textin me again. Recently, I haven't seen him as much b/c of his change in schedule, but I managed to see him once this week %26amp; he was flirting with me like crazy and asked me to give him a massage. I'm confused b/c I heard that he was talkin about how interested he was in me to friends yet its been over a month and it seems like hes losing interest. Also, I wrote on his wall on facebook yesterday but no reply. He keeps writin on this other girl's wall who has a bf with cute messages. Help!

I am confused?
Have you ever heard out of sight, out of mind? On campus you meet new people all the time and find many new interest. Don't think something is wrong with you or you did something wrong, it is normal to meet a lot of people at first and not stay in touch, especially with different schedules and interest. If he is trying to mess with someone he knows is involved with someone else, you don't want to mess with him. That would not be a good start, just enjoy meeting new people and focus on yourself and classes for now. When the feelings are mutual you will find a way to stay in touch with each other, no matter what your schedules. Good luck and have fun.
Reply:yea, i would say he is maybe a little afraid to ask you out, so maybe he is getting ready to give up... becuase YOU wont ask HIM out... make the next move, you'll be rewarded!
Reply:Just ask him out. It's obvious that he likes you. maybe he is just writing on the other girls wall to make you jealous. He may think that you are the one that is losing interest in him.
Reply:go with women
Reply:If you want to be with the dude, simply ask him out.