I feel worthless, I feel like neither I am beautiful nor smart. I feel so insecure. Nothing is going right.?

I am about to be a senior in college and I feel like I have no future, as no matter how hard I try, I barely manage to pass. I have no motivation and I do not feel confident at all. MY G.P.A is worst than ever .I barely manage to pass my test or I just manage a C at the most and it’s not because I party every night or just slack off. So, I have just given up. On top of that I am insecure about my looks, I feel like even though, I am pretty, I have acne and guys do not find that attractive. Neither I am pretty nor am I smart or intelligent. I would have been ecstatic if I was really smart and I would not be so conscious about how I look .Is something wrong with me, I just want some advice and I don’t want any negative comments because I want someone to hear me out. I know therapy is a good thing but I rather be anonymous and get some advice rather than talk to someone in person. Don’t get me wrong, I am in a bad mood and I am not really depressed. I try being optimistic, but things like my grades get to me pretty hard. I feel like I am just plain dumb and I should not even try doing anything cause I wont be successful. I feel I am socially inept as I have very few friends I could even talk to and I am not a people person and that gets to me. I feel like that my looks, my grades or the lack of having good grades, or feeling pretty is my fault. That it is just my insecurity but no matter how hard I tried, I have always been a below average student .And, I always feel ugly due to my acne. Anyway, I just wanted someone to just give me an advice on anything that they feel like is relevant!! I would appreciate it! It might sound immature but is it really immaturity? I don’t know…

I feel worthless, I feel like neither I am beautiful nor smart. I feel so insecure. Nothing is going right.?
This is gonna sound simplistic, but you need to exercise.





It's by far the best way of defeating the kinda of feelings and insecurities you're suffering from right now.





You'll feel better mentally and you'll have a better level of self-worth. You confidence will pick up and you'll actually do better in school.





It's not the easy fix, but trust me....nothing will make you feel better like exercising. We've become such a lethargic society that our brains aren't receiving the same chemicals that can be generated by exercise.





We used to be hunter/gatherers. We had to work long days and tough days just to survive. Our brain works on a reward system...strenuous activity will trip off the receptors in the brain that control feelings of well being. Now that everything about life is easy, we're no longer active. So we're not getting the chemicals in the level the human body was designed for.
Reply:okay.... well you need a break. why don't you walk up to one of the people in your class or dorm and find out about them maybe ask them if they want to go get a coffee or something. and you can help each other with your work. just get to know each other. why don't you try a change? go swimming or see a movie, something you haven't done in awhile, and then come back and try working again. but friends really make a huge difference. btw, you can email me too if you want, along with emm and bluesun: thecutesonali@yahoo.com
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Reply:You're probably tired and a little run down. Have you asked yourself why you're beating up on yourself? Getting out in fresh air and sunshine helps immensely. Go to a place that interests you, like a zoo or gardens or a greenhouse or anywhere that will make you appreciate beauty in our world.Depression builds on itself, so break the cycle asap.
Reply:Well when it comes to grades I no how you feel, no matter how hard I tried in school or how much I studied I always came out with a C in the subjects that mattered, My problem was I was not a good reader and if you can't read well or comprehend what you read your screwed, my advice in that department is to get some help in study skills their are ways to learn how to study now a days, they have more help for people now, when I was in school all they had was remedial reading classes which didn't help me, now they have learning centers that can help you learn how to learn, all I know is you have done a much better job than I did, I never made it to college because of my grades, I don't retain what I learn very well, so if I were you I would feel proud that I have become a senior in college, I wish it was me. As for the rest you have a self esteem problem, with a little help I am sure you can over come it, and with age comes more maturity and what is important to you now, will not be by the time your in your thirties, and what is important in your thirties will not be by the time your in your forties as I am. Give your self some time and don't be so hard on yourself. It's great you a senior in college. congratulations!!!!
Reply:Things always get toughest before they get better. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and fix whatever it is you don't like. Moaning about it won't get you anywhere,you're the only one who can fix it..so do it.
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Reply:I've had days like that too. You're a senior in college. You must be doing something right. You barely manage to pass.... but you've passed to get you this far! Don't give up now! Who cares if it's a C. You worked hard for that C and to be honest, most employers are not going to look at your transcript. They're going to be excited you have a degree. I agree that exercise could really help. Sometimes I feel awful and don't want to talk to or look at anyone but I make myself run (walking is fine too) and this clears my head and makes me feel so much better. I can really tell a difference in my mood after I've made myself be active. As far as the acne, if you are on your parent's insurance, can you go to a dermatologist? If not, I've seen some pretty good results from Proactive Skin Care. It is costly but you can find some good deals on ebay. I'm not sure what your diet consists of either but this effects both mood and can effect acne. Try searching the web for foods that can contribute to acne and see if you're eating a lot of those foods. Don't give up!
Reply:dont give up buckle down and do it as far as looks beauty is in the eye of the beholder. and as far as inteligence put fourth more effort and remember i know you can do it .


in the immortal words just do the dew.
Reply:I am soory i feel terrible for you. Sometimes I feel that way to. guys arn't ever into me either, they always make fun of me and treat me terribly because i have a beauty mark under my lip. I always feel so ugly like there isnt a guy out there for me. But you know what at the perfect time God is going to give me one who has been prepared for me. I just have to wait. I am not smart either. No matter how hard i try i get C's too. But you know what i bet we are better at somthing else than being smart nerds. We just don't know what it is yet. So feel better and realize your not the only one going through problems!
Reply:None of us are worthless, I am a cancer survivor and you are just going thru a difficult time knowing that your are finishing school and you are probably a little scared of being in the big word competing. You are the only one that can give yourself confidence. As you get up and thru out the day look in the mirror and tell yourself how attractive you are and tell yourself that you love yourself. We love hearig these words even if we say them to ourselves. I will pray for you.

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